Forget rushing to the altar in your early twenties—couples today are taking their time. The average age of engagement has steadily increased, with men typically proposing around 30 years old and women around 28.


Why Are People Getting Engaged Later?

This trend reflects a larger societal shift. More people are prioritizing education, career development, and personal growth before marriage. Instead of rushing, couples are taking their time to ensure they’re financially and emotionally prepared for a lifelong commitment.

Average Marrying Age Chart
Below is a bar chart showing the average marrying age in different countries.

The Benefits of a Later Engagement

Waiting to get engaged has its advantages. Research suggests that people in their late 20s and early 30s enter marriage with greater emotional maturity and a stronger sense of self. A later proposal means more time to build financial stability and shared goals before tying the knot.

So, if you’re wondering, “what is a normal age to be engaged?”, the data suggests that waiting until your late 20s or early 30s isn’t just normal—it might even be the best decision for a long-lasting marriage.


Source: The Knot Worldwide

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A hand wearing a gold wedding band rests against a plaid flannel shirt with a black undershirt.
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💫 Whenever You Say “Yes,” I’ll Be There to Capture It


Whether you got engaged at 22 or 32, what matters most is that your love feels right. If you’re embracing the beauty of a later engagement, you’re in great company—and your story deserves to be captured with the same depth and intention you’ve brought to your relationship.


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